Good intentions are not enough.
The road to recovery is paved first with good intentions then morphs into hard work, determination, resolve, and commitment. Good intentions can start the process but it is not enough to complete it. Imagine a stretch of highway on a flat road which is far easier to pave then it is to engineer a bridge which spans across a large body of water.
The process of recovery is more like constructing a bri...
From Childhood To Adulthood
For many, high school graduation day rightly marks a transition from childhood to adulthood. No longer acting like a child, this new adult is properly equipped to embrace life and move forward with excitement and determination. Unfortunately, too many graduates fail to make this shift and thus drag out the transition well into their twenties.
Not all of this is the graduate’s fault. Parents who don&rs...
You can tell yourself all you want that even the best of us makes the occasional mistake now and then, but when you’re the one who makes the mistake, it can be difficult to believe.
Consider, for example, the fact that many of the top box office and Oscar-winning movies contain bloopers. In fact, the IMDB website regularly includes a list of “goofs” in such acclaimed movies as Chicago, and there is an entire website d...
Our nation is filled with stressed out teens. Anxiety affects about one third of youth in the U.S.? According to the Child Mind Institute Children’s Mental Health Report, anxiety is the most common childhood disorder among teens ages 13–18. Sadly, 80 percent of youth do not receive treatment for their condition. What’s more concerning is teens are experiencing anxiety levels that mirror or extend beyond the level adult...
Not why addiction, but why the pain? – Dr. Gabor Maté
What Dr. Maté—a leader in addiction medicine and world-renowned author and speaker—is saying, is something we’ve long known to be true and yet the field of addiction treatment still lags behind the research: addiction is usually a symptom of underlying trauma, or mental health issues that are the manifestation of trauma. Dr. Mat&eac...
If someone you care about is using drugs or alcohol in a way that’s threatening their health, relationships, finances, career, and perhaps even their life, you no doubt feel overwhelmed and desperate to help them come to their senses. But in order to truly help those who have lost control, it’s important to understand some of the realities of addiction.
Realities of Addiction
Signs to Look For if You Suspect Your Teenager Has a Substance Abuse Problem
For parents who are concerned with the possibility that their child is taking drugs, or perhaps experiencing a problem with alcohol, it can be a very scary time. Teenage substance abuse can have long-term physical effects, especially because their brains are still developing. Furthermore, this abuse's influence will most likely ex...
School Refusal Syndrome
Your child may be suffering from School Refusal Syndrome if:
♦ The subject of school attendance brings emotional distress
♦ Your teen feels anxious, or afraid of school
♦ Excuses and deception increase
Everyone feels these things about school at one time or another, but School Refusal...
Why They Bully
Someone who acknowledges their self-worth and genuine value as a unique individual often seeks to find that same worth and value in others. Similarly, a person who dislikes themselves and does not believe in their own worth seeks to destroy the self-esteem and self perception of others. This reasoning can explain why some adolescents are more prone to bullying their peers – they themselves are insecure. If you know...