How To Talk To Your Children About Drug Abuse (Continued)

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Pointers to Remember When Talking to Your Children 

‚?®‚?®Consider the following: 

‚?®‚?®Honesty Matters 

‚?®‚?®One of the most important things to remember is to be honest with your children. For example, it is okay to go over your family addiction issues in detail. Write out some of the key aspects of the addiction, and be sure to talk about your thoughts or feelings regarding the addiction. Do not shy away from unresolved problems and consequences. ‚?®

‚?®Age Appropriate 

‚?®‚?®It is important to be honest, but that does not mean that you need to divulge every aspect of the addiction problem in your household or family history. It is no secret that some of the issues associated with drugs can be very dark, disturbing, and sometimes scary. Just try to do your best when you talk to your child and be direct without going over some of the darker details. 

‚?®‚?®3-C’s Importance 

‚?®‚?®Talking to your children about drug addiction, especially if it something that has affected the family recently, can be a little tricky. Children who have witnessed the effects of drugs first-hand may have certain emotions and thoughts running through their heads. These thoughts and feelings need to be addressed. It might be a good idea to address some of these issues using the 3 C’s principle, which is sometimes used in many addiction recovery centers. The first ‘c’ stands for the fact that you did not cause the addiction to occur. Your child should know that. The other ‘c’ says that the problem cannot be cured. The third ‘c’ means that drug addiction cannot be controlled. This three-part principle might help your child cope with the kinds of problems that he or she might have been exposed to. 

‚?®‚?®Knowledge Matters 

‚?®‚?®Children are curious, and it is a good idea to have at least some knowledge regarding the drugs that you are going to be talking about. You are the person they are looking up to, which could make your answer that much more important. It might be a good idea to have your child talk to the person who had the addiction so that he or she can discuss the problem. The answers provided by the ex-addict might be more poignant than answers from someone who has not gone through the problem. ‚?®

‚?®Allow Children to Speak Freely 

‚?®‚?®Try to make sure that you leave enough time for your child to share his or her feelings. Do your best to ensure that you do not judge his or her responses nor is it a springboard for an argument. You want your child to feel safe when sharing something with you. ‚?®

‚?®Stay Connected Friends together at a picnic

‚?®‚?®Parents should try to get to know their children’s friends. This does not mean that you should judge a friend based on his or her appearance but rather get to know him or her so that you know what type of person he or she is. Knowing friends and establishing a connection may help keep you informed and help deter friends with the wrong intentions. 

‚?®‚?®Controlling it 

‚?®‚?®Drug addiction might still happen, no matter how much you prepare or what you do to keep your kids or teens free from drugs. If you suspect a problem, you might need some help. You may need to talk to professionals who understand how to deal with child addiction. Recent studies have shown that environment can be just as big of an obstacle as the chemical hooks that come with substance abuse. This is why it is so important to get your son or daughter out of their current setting and into a safe and secure environment, like Wingate Wilderness Therapy. This should help lead your child to a place where they are no longer chained to the drugs. If you suspect your child is having reactions from substance use, look into the Wingate Wilderness Therapy program as a possible solution. Your child can discover their purpose and get on the right path.

Originally written by Bill Weiss